Question

【題目】What do we really mean by being open? Being open is a kind of invitation to others to come in, to speak and to share. It’s important to let others get to know how we think and feel. In this way we will be understood and accepted by others. If we aren’t open with others, we won’t fully believe in ourselves or others.

Here are a few ways for you to be more open. First, make your outside behavior the same as your inside feelings and thoughts. Second, share how you really feel about something instead of just opinions. Third, try to change your questions into statements and talk in the first person so that it will be easier for people to understand. For example, you might say, “I feel happy that you’re here.” Instead of “ Are you glad that you’re here ?”

Remember also that it is not suitable to be open with everyone in every situation. You may want to be more open with close friends, but not with people you don’t know well, because you are not sure how someone else will use what they know about you. Besides, some people may not be used to too much openness. If we say everything we feel and think to them, they will feel very comfortable at times.

In all, being open is a good way for us to get on well with other people, we’d better keep the balance between being open and not being too open.

【1】 Being open means a kind of _____________ to come in, to speak and to share, we’d better keep way others will fully _____________________ us.

【2】First, don’t make your outside behavior________________ your inside feelings and thoughts. Second, share your really feelings about something not just opinions , _________.

【3】Third, try not to ask questions but to use statement and talk _______________ so that people will understand you _____________.

【4】Don’t be open with everyone. You may be more open with ____________, but not with people you don’t know well, because someone may use________________________.

【5】If we say everything we feel and think to the people who__________________ too much openness, they will feel very uncomfortable at times. We’d better _________________ between being open and not being too open.

Answer 1

【答案】

【1】invitation to others, understand and accept

【2】different from, instead

【3】in the first person, more easily

【4】close friends, what they know about you

【5】may not be used to , keep the balance

【解析】

試題分析：本文采用夾敘夾議的方式來描述在生活中如何同別人交往：讓別人進入我們的心間，交談與分享，讓別人知道我們的想法與感受。這樣可以讓我們被理解與接受。相互理解，相信、理解別人, 才會真正意義上相信你自己。并由此給出了一些合理的與人交往的建議。

【1】invitation to others, understand and accept由短文第一自然段第二句“Being open is a kind of invitation to others to come in, to speak and to share.”可知前句填：invitation to others；由短文第一自然段第四句“In this way we will be understood and accepted by others.”，通過這種方式，別人將會理解和接受我們的。本句用了被動語態(tài)而考查卻使用了主動形式。注意動詞的變化形式。所以后句填understand and accept。故填：invitation to others, understand and accept

【2】different from, instead題意：首先，不要讓你的外在行為和你內(nèi)心想法與感受不一樣。其次，分享你對事物的真實想法而不僅僅是觀點。由第二自然段第一條建議; “ First, make your outside behavior the same as your inside feelings and thoughts. Second, share how you really feel about something instead of just opinions.”可知：“表里如一”表達成：不要讓外在與內(nèi)心不一樣，故前句填：different from；后句表示“而不”，句末，用instead。故填：different from, instead

【3】in the first person, more easily題意：第三，盡量不要提問，而是用第一人稱陳述與交談，以便別人更容易理解你。從文中的“Third, try to change your questions into statements and talk in the first person so that it will be easier for people to understand.”（第3，盡量把你的問題變成陳述并以第一人稱的方式說出來，以便人們更容易理解。）可以知道，前句填“以第一人稱”：in the first person；后句還是表達“更容易理解”，原句是連系動詞be后用形容詞，這句是修飾行為動詞understand，用副詞easily。故填：in the first person, more easily。

【4】close friends, what they know about you題意：不要對所有人放開一切，你可以對親密朋友更開放，而不是你不了解的人，因為有人可能利用他們知道的你的東西。從短文第3自然段的“You may want to be more open with close friends, but not with people you don’t know well, because you are not sure how someone else will use what they know about you.”（你可以對親密朋友更放開而不是你不了解的朋友。因為你不肯定其它人怎樣處理他們知道的你的秘密。）可知，本題填：close friends, what they know about you。

【5】may not be used to , keep the balance題意：如果我們把我們的一切感受和想法向那些不習慣外向的人說出來。他們有時會感到不舒服。我們最好在外向與不外向之前保持平衡。由短文最后兩自然段結(jié)合本題題意可知，本題填：may not be used to , keep the balance。