When someone has deeply hurt you, it can be very difficult to let go of your anger. But forgiveness is possible - and it can be surprisingly helpful to your physical and mental health. Indeed, research has shown that people who forgive have more energy, better appetite (胃口) and better sleep. “People who forgive show less anger and more hopefulness,” says Dr. Frederic Luskin, who wrote the book Forgive for Good. “So it can help save on the wear and tear(消耗) on our body and make people feel more energetic.”
So when someone has hurt you, calm down first. Take plenty of breathe deeply and think of something that gives you pleasure: a beautiful scene in nature, someone you love. Don’t wait for an apology(道歉). “Many times the person who hurt you may never think of apologizing,” says Dr. Luskin. “They may have wanted to hurt you or they just don’t see things the same way. So if you wait for people to apologize, you could be waiting a very long time.” Keep in mind that forgiveness does not necessarily mean accepting the action of the person who makes you angry. Mentally going over your hurt gives power to the person who brought you pain. Instead, learn to look for the love, beauty and kindness around you. Finally, try to see things from the other person’s perspective(視角). You may realize that he or she was acting out of ignorance (無知), fear, even love. To achieve the perspective, you may write a letter to yourself from that person’s point of view.
小題1:When someone has deeply hurt you, it’s not easy for you to ________.
A.feel very angryB.let go of your anger
C.keep remembering it D.let your anger appear
小題2:What will you do first when someone has hurt you?
A.Take much breathes deeply.B.See things in a different way.
C.Keep yourself calm. D.Go over your hurt.
小題3:According to the writer, what is the right way to calm down after being hurt?
A.Try to make sure why you get hurt.
B.Write a letter to the person who hurt you.
C.Tell yourself to accept what others have done to you.
D.Think about pleasant things and forget about the hurt.
小題4:Dr. Luskin advises us not to wait for an apology after being hurt because ______.
A.we are not patient enough
B.we’d feel worse accepting others’ apology
C.people seldom want to apologize
D.people don’ t mean it when they apologize
小題5:This passage is mainly written to explain _______.
A.how to keep yourself from being hurt
B.how to stay mentally healthy
C.how and when to stay calm
D.why and how to forgive others

小題1:B
小題1:C
小題1:D
小題1:C
小題1:D

小題1:根據(jù)第一段When someone has deeply hurt you, it can be very difficult to let go of your anger. 可知選B
小題1:根據(jù)第二段So when someone has hurt you, calm down first.可知選C
小題1:根據(jù)第二段Take plenty of breathe deeply and think of something that gives you pleasure:及下文描述,可知選D
小題1:根據(jù)第二段Don’t wait for an apology(道歉). “Many times the person who hurt you may never think of apologizing,” says Dr. Luskin.描述,可知選C
小題1:這篇短文主要講述了收到別人傷害后,應(yīng)該怎么做的問題,故選D.為什么和如何原諒別人
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How are millennials different? They are the first generation born in the computer age. The internet has always been a part of their lives. They spend about 16 hours a week on the Internet, and this doesn’t include e-mail. And they spend 72 hours a week using other electronic media(媒體), including mobile phones and video games. They are “nation speakers” of the language of the computer age. People who were born earlier will never be native speakers of that language. Why not? They did not grow up “speaking” it.
How will millennials change the workforce? To answer that question, it is important to understand how millennials use the Internet. They use the Internet to communicate. They visit website such as FaceBook and MySpace every day. They share(分享)ideas, music, information, games, and friendships with people all over the world. When they start working, they will want to share their work and ideas with others.
It is also important to understand the way millennials grew up. Thair parents and teachers gave them a lot of attention. They taught them that their opinions were valuable(有價值的). As a result, amny millennials are very cinfident. At work, they will expect their co-workers and bosses to listen to their opinions.
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These are a few of the changes that experts believe millennials will bring to the American workforce. But the world is changing very fast. There will probably be more changes that are difficult to imagine today.
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A.Millennials belong to a new generation.
B.Millennials were born about ten years ago.
C.Millennials are entering the workforce.
D.Millennials know little about the world before the Internet.
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C.Millennials use mobile phones and e-mails often.
D.Millennials spend long hours playing video games.
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A.Because they know how to use the Internet to make new friends.
B.Because they understand how to communicate with new friends.
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D.Because the Internet can provide all the information they need.
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D.Many of the millennials have had fun and creative experiences when they are on sports teams.
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A.the number of the millennials had come to 33 million by the end of 1982
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² Bicycling helps to control your weight.
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² Bicycling can improve your mood.
Exercise like bicycling has been shown to make people feel better, more relaxed and self-confident.
² Bicycling is healthier than driving.
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