If parents bring up a child with the aim of turning the child into a genius(天才), they will cause great damage to him. According to several leading educational experts, this is one of the biggest mistakes that some parents make. Generally, the child will understand very well what the parents expect. and will fall. Unrealistic(不現(xiàn)實(shí))expectations of the parents can cause great damage to children.

    However, if parents are not unrealistic about what they expect their children to do, but are hopeful in a sensible(明智)way, the child may succeed in doing very well—especially if the parents are very supportive(支持的)to their children.

    Michael Li is very lucky. He likes music and his parents help him a lot by taking him to concerts and let him attend piano and violin lessons. Although Michael's mother knows very little about music, his father is a good musician. However, he never makes Michael enter music competitions if he is unwilling.

    Michael's friend, Winston Chen, however, is not so lucky. Although both his parents are successful musicians, they set too high a standard(水平)for Winston. They want their son to be as successful as they are and so they enter him in every piano competition held. They are very unhappy when he does not win. “When I was your age I used to win every competition I enter.” Winston's father tells him. Winston is always afraid that he will disappoint his parents and now he always quiet and unhappy.

1.The main idea of the passage is _________.

A. how parents should make a child a musician

B. how parents should bring up a child

C. what differences there are between the two boys

D. what aim is easier for a child to reach

2.Winston's parents set so high a standard for him that _______.

A. he has to do his best to win every competition

B. he has made greater progress in music

C. he is afraid he may disappoint them

D. he often wants to kill himself someday

3.It is one of the parents’ worst mistakes if ______.

A. they want their child to be a musician

B. they help their child to win music competition

C. they don't care for their child's education much

D. they make their child try to achieve too much

4. According to the writer's opinion, _________.

A. it's unimportant to let the children develop(=grow)in the way they want

B. sensible parents can train their children to succeed in everything

C. parents should be realistic and supportive to their children

D. unrealistic parents should arrange(安排)private lessons for their children

 

【答案】

 

1.B

2.C

3.D

4.C

【解析】

試題分析:這篇短文的主要意思是家長(zhǎng)對(duì)孩子不現(xiàn)實(shí)的期望會(huì)對(duì)孩子造成傷害。文章中還給我們舉了一正一反兩個(gè)例子來(lái)給我們證明這一點(diǎn)。

1.主旨大意題?v觀全文,在文章中第一段告訴了我們家長(zhǎng)對(duì)孩子不現(xiàn)實(shí)的期望會(huì)對(duì)孩子造成傷害,第二段告訴我們?nèi)绻议L(zhǎng)用明智的方式對(duì)孩子寄予希望,孩子反而會(huì)更可能成功。故這篇文章講的是如何教育孩子的問(wèn)題,故選B。

2.細(xì)節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)文章的最后一段Winston is always afraid that he will disappoint his parents and now he always quiet and unhappy. Winston總是害怕他會(huì)令他的父母失望,所以他總是很安靜不開(kāi)心。故選C。

3.推理判斷題。根據(jù)文章中this is one of the biggest mistakes that some parents make可知家長(zhǎng)對(duì)孩子期望過(guò)高,會(huì)讓孩子有更大的壓力,在強(qiáng)大的壓力下,孩子反而會(huì)失敗。這是家長(zhǎng)們犯的一個(gè)嚴(yán)重的錯(cuò)誤。故選D。

4.推理判斷題。根據(jù)文章大意,家長(zhǎng)不應(yīng)該對(duì)孩子期望過(guò)高,施加太大的壓力,而是應(yīng)該現(xiàn)實(shí)一點(diǎn),支持孩子的做法。故選C。

考點(diǎn):教育類短文閱讀。

 

練習(xí)冊(cè)系列答案
相關(guān)習(xí)題

科目:初中英語(yǔ) 來(lái)源: 題型:閱讀理解

April 27 is a special day in Britain. It’s called Take Our Daughter to Work Day. It was brought to Britain in 1994 from America. On that day thousands of girls take a day off school and go with one of their parents to their work places. By doing this, it can teach girls more about the society where they live.
Now the girls can have a close look at what their parents are doing. This may help them to be calmer when they have to choose a job. Mary experienced a day of work at her mother’s office. This helped her understand her mother’s work better. She said that this made her feel more confident about her future.
Schools and many companies support the activity, too. Some schools even make the day a necessary part of school life.
Experts think that girls with more self-confidence are more likely(可能的)to be successful than common girls. If parents can set good examples both at work and at home for them, they will do better than others. Take Our Daughter to Work Day is surely a step in the right direction.
【小題1】Where was Take Our Daughter to Work Day brought?
A.From America. B.From China.
C.From Canada. D.From Australia.
【小題2】On Take Our Daughter to Work Day, thousands of girls_______.
A.go on a journey with their parents
B.have a party with their friends at home
C.go to the work places of one of their parents
D.take part in a school activity freely
【小題3】What’s the advantage by doing such an activity?
A.It can help girls understand their parents’work better.
B.It can teach girls more about the society.
C.It can make girls feel more confident about their future.
D.All of the above.
【小題4】 Which of the following is NOT true about Take Our Daughter to Work Day?
A.It is a special activity on April 27 in Britain.
B.Schools and many companies support this activity
C.Many girls like this day because they won’t go to school.
D.Some schools even make the day a necessary part of school life.
【小題5】According to the experts, being______ is the most important to girls in their future.
A.smart and carefulB.confident
C.hard-working D.friendly

查看答案和解析>>

科目:初中英語(yǔ) 來(lái)源: 題型:

在下面對(duì)話的空白處填入適當(dāng)?shù)脑捳Z(yǔ)(話語(yǔ)可以是句子、短語(yǔ)或詞) 使對(duì)話完整。
A: Excuse me. I’m new here in this school. 【小題1】 ____________ some rules here?
B: Sure.
A: First, where can I put my bike?
B: Students’ bikes can be put behind that building.
A: 【小題2】 ____________ if parents come to see me on their bikes?
B: Guests aren’t 【小題3】____________ leave their bikes inside the school. They have to put their bikes outside the school gate.
A: Second, can we bring out lunch to the classroom?
B: 【小題4】____________ finish it in the dining hall. We don’t allow eating lunch in the classroom.
A: Oh, I see. Are there any rules about playing sports? Are we allowed to bring our own equipment here?
B: 【小題5】 ____________ But you don’t have to bring your own equipment to school. Our school has all kinds. You can choose any to enjoy yourself.

查看答案和解析>>

科目:初中英語(yǔ) 來(lái)源:2012-2013學(xué)年四川攀枝花第十二中學(xué)初三上學(xué)期期中考試英語(yǔ)試卷(帶解析) 題型:閱讀理解

It’s the end of class.When the bell rings, students of Luohu Foreign Languages School in Shenzhen quickly take out their telephones.They want to log on to their micro blogs (登錄到他們的微博) to check the interesting things.They want to see what have happened in the last hour.
Since several years ago, more and more people have used micro blogs in our country.Recent surveys (調(diào)查) shows that most students in middle schools have a micro blog and some even update (更新) their blogs over five times per day.
“We learn many fresh and interesting things on micro blogs and they have become popular topics in class,” said Kitty Jiang, 14.“If you do not know about them, you are out of loop.” It is also a great place for students to say something about themselves.“My parents always ask me to study hard, and encourage me before exams, but it really gives me pressure (壓力),” said Alan Wang, 15.“I share these feelings on my micro blog.My friends always give me answers in the same situation.This makes me feel better.”
But parents worry that micro blogging could be a waste of time.Some unhealthy information may even bring danger to kids, they said.
Mr Shen, a professor (教授) asks parents not to worry too much as long as kids are not crazy about micro blogging.Maybe it can become a window for parents to understand their children.“If parents can read their children’s micro blogs, they’ll know what they think, they can know more about their children and help them solve their problems,” he said.He also gives some advice for kids.
-Don’t micro blog for more than one hour a day.
-Never micro blog in class.
-Try to talk face to face with people from time to time.
-Don’t believe all the information on a micro blog.
【小題1】According to the passage, what do students log on to their micro blogs to do?

A.check the thingsB.write articles
C.listen to musicD.call their parents
【小題2】What’s the meaning of the underlined part “out of loop” in the passage?
A.not excitedB.unhealthyC.unluckyD.not popular
【小題3】From Mr Shen’s words, what do micro blogging do?
A.It makes kids crazy while logging on to it.
B.It will bring a lot of unhealthy information.
C.It becomes a window to understand young kids.
D.It will not solve problems for kids
【小題4】Which of the following sentence is true according to the passage?
A.It’s good for kids to micro blog for more than one hour a day.
B.Kids should believe all the messages on a micro blog because they are useful.
C.Many young people have written something on micro blogs since two years ago.
D.Kids should try to talk face to face with people, not just micro blogging.

查看答案和解析>>

科目:初中英語(yǔ) 來(lái)源:2012-2013學(xué)年浙江省杭州市九年級(jí)12月月考英語(yǔ)試卷(解析版) 題型:閱讀理解

If the child has been brought up in a loving, openly communicative environment, the relationship with parents would be a strong one.It is only when there are ongoing troubles in the relationship between parents and the child that there is a breakdown in communication.

When parents are going through difficulties in their own relationship, the child sometimes develops guilt.The child can hold himself or herself responsible for the breakdown in relationship between the parents.This needs to be explained to the child, who won’t speak out this guilt.

The teenage years are emotionally sensitive years to the outside world.For the first time the child realizes his or her position in society.Friends suddenly become more important than parents.It is during this time that the relationship between children and parents is tested.If the bond with parents is strong, the child will not be influenced by the drug and alcohol culture.If the bond is weaker, the child will end up with problems.

During such times, one of the effective ways to deal with the problems is to discuss the problem with the child.As parents, you will need to discuss the results of each choice and then leave the final decision to the child.Forcing parental will on children is counterproductive (適得其反的), especially at this age.Forcing parental will at this time will stop communicating and then you will not know what is happening in their life.Whatever the problem is, the child need never be made to feel lonely.The moment that happens, the possibility of serious self-harm is raised.

Any problem at this age can be dealt with by a flexible (靈活的) way by parents.Discuss things calmly.Leave the decision to the individual.Make yourself available for any help or support that the child hopes.The child will feel comfortable when allowed the freedom of choice.

1.If parents have trouble with their relationship, the child __________ .

A.will communicate with their parents

B.will be responsible for the trouble

C.will feel guilty about the trouble

D.will help the parents recover

2.According to the text, what will lead the child to get into trouble?

A.The sense of responsibility.

B.A weak bond with parents.

C.Feeling depressed or stressed

D.The child’s confidence.

3.Which of the following ways can help solve the children’s problem?

A.Letting the children be.

B.Discussing it with the children.

C.Forcing parental will on them

D.Meeting their demands.

4.The underlined word “forcing” can be replaced with the word“________ .”

A.Weakening.                          B.Pressing.

C.Understanding.                        D.Losing.

5.What is the text mainly about?

A.The bond between parents and children.

B.Causes of teenagers’ problems.

C.Teenagers’ problems and solutions.

D.Always letting the children decide.

 

查看答案和解析>>

科目:初中英語(yǔ) 來(lái)源:2011-2012學(xué)年吉林省長(zhǎng)春市九年級(jí)上學(xué)期期中質(zhì)量監(jiān)測(cè)英語(yǔ)卷 題型:選詞填空

選詞填空。從方框中選出可以填入文中空白處的選項(xiàng),并將其填入短文后相應(yīng)題號(hào)的橫線上。 (其中有兩個(gè)選項(xiàng)是多余的)(10分)

A. necessary     B. comes       C. well       D. up         E. hold        F. habits

G. parents’       H. dressed      I. forget      J. nothing      K. how        L.from

    Now lots of parents will buy everything that their children want to have. If they go on with the habit, their children won’t know the money   1   from hard work.

Some parents like to   2   birthday parties for their children. If they keep on doing this, their children will think it   3   for them to enjoy birthday parties every year. Year after year, maybe they will forget their   4   birthdays and only remember their own. It is against traditional habits.

Many parents don’t let the children do housework. They think children have only one thing to do. They should study hard and do   5    in their lessons. If parents go on doing this, the children will only learn to open their mouths to be fed and stretch out (伸出) their arms to be   6   every day. When the children grow   7   , they will be able to do   8  , and they won’t even find a job. Parents should teach the children   9   to do housework because it can help them start good    10   of working by themselves.

 

查看答案和解析>>

同步練習(xí)冊(cè)答案