After we meet people it is up to us to make them our friends.Let us stop a moment and consider what really makes a friend.The major qualities like faithfulness, devotion, friendly company, flash through our minds.But it is the large number of very small particular qualities that make up one’s whole character, such as cheerfulness, friendliness, and punctuality (守時).After all, “ to make a friend, be a friend” is not such a big and difficult order.There are particular favorable qualities, which attract others to us, and some elements which do have an effect on people in fundamental psychology(基礎(chǔ)心理學(xué)) or not.
If you are in the presence of a shy person, talking and asking casual (隨意的) questions may bring him out of his shell.Think of what would be most acceptable to the other person, for you to talk, or to listen.Either way the goal is to make yourself pleasant.
Always remember to listen, but listen intelligently.To have anyone “ hang on our words” is the most unnoticeably clever way in the world to please somebody.For a few extremely happy seconds we are the centre of attraction, but when it is our turn to be audience, let us remember how we felt as the actor, and let’s be genuinely (真正地) interested in what the other fellow is saying.
Other people will like us, if we like them.If you want friends, keep your mind and heart open to friendship.Be alive to the other person’s world.

  1. 1.

    This passage is mainly about_________________.

    1. A.
      the ways of talking to a shy person
    2. B.
      some favorable qualities to be a psychologist
    3. C.
      how to make yourself attractive to your listeners
    4. D.
      how to make a friend and be a friend
  2. 2.

    The words “ bring him out of his shell” in this passage most probably means ____.

    1. A.
      make him become active
    2. B.
      make him feel more nervous
    3. C.
      help him understand the question better
    4. D.
      help him listen intelligently
  3. 3.

    According to the passage, an important way in making friends is to ________.

    1. A.
      attract them
    2. B.
      be attracted
    3. C.
      listen attentively
    4. D.
      talk widely
  4. 4.

    The words “ Be alive to” in the last sentence of this passage most probably means________.

    1. A.
      be aware of
    2. B.
      keep with
    3. C.
      deal with
    4. D.
      be ignorant of
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第一節(jié) 閱讀下列短文，從每題所給的四個選項（A、B、C和D）中，選出最佳選項，并在答題卡上將該項涂黑。
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After we’d been out on the ice for a little while, my feet started getting cold.
“ Daddy, my feet are cold.” I said.
“Yeah, it’s cold out here today,” he replied.
“Tell you what,” he said. “Walk around. Make some circles in the snow. See how many different patterns you can make. That will get your feet warm.”
Now, I was just a little girl at the time but I remember thinking, “How in the world will walking around in the snow make my feet warm? Dad must be out of mind.
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【小題1】The author bought her mother flowers to ____.

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B．express thanks for all her mother has done
C．bring more flowers to her mother's garden
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B．The mother was not happy when receiving the bouquet.
C．The author would pick up another bouquet the next month.
D．The mother would send back the bouquet to the flower shop.
【小題3】The underlined word "skimpy" in Para. 4 means ____.
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【小題4】What did the author learn from her mother?
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【小題5】
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Mom's words helped me to realize something bigger and more important --when we have too many good things, we often fail to enjoy the beauty of each one. 

Thanks, Mom, for helping me understand that less is sometimes more.

1.The author bought her mother flowers to ____.

A. celebrate the coming Christmas

B. express thanks for all her mother has done

C. bring more flowers to her mother's garden

D. arrange her mother's new house

2. What can you infer from the passage?

A. The author couldn't afford a big bouquet.

B. The mother was not happy when receiving the bouquet.

C. The author would pick up another bouquet the next month.

D. The mother would send back the bouquet to the flower shop.

3.The underlined word "skimpy" in Para. 4 means ____.

A. beautiful  B. colorful    C. cheap              D. small

4.What did the author learn from her mother?

A. How to grow flowers.                    B. How to arrange flowers.

C. Enjoying life if possible.         D. Considering things in other ways.

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閱讀下面短文，從短文后各題所給的四個選項（A、B、C和D）中，選出最佳選項。

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My father died and we donated his eyes  52  he had wanted. Three days later, my daughter said, “Mum, I’m so  53  of what you did for Grandpa. At that moment I realized that my father gave much more than his  54 . What he  55  behind sparkled in my daughter’s eyes — pride.

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2.A. repair     B. operate C. treat    D. use

3.A. in tears   B. in silence   C. in a hurry   D. in surprise

4. A. couldn’t     B. mustn’t     C. might not    D. shouldn’t

5.A. So     B. And C. But D. For

6.A. said to   B. replied to       C. explained to D. cried at

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10. A. then     B. later    C. soon     D. long ago

11. A. have     B. make     C. keep     D. tell

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14. A. ordinary     B. important    C. useless D. hard

15. A. carefully    B. sadly    C. cruelly D. cheerfully

16.A. who   B. whatever     C. that     D. which

17. A. as   B. when     C. while    D. where

18.. A. fond    B. tired    C. proud    D. afraid

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