Many things — genetics, environment, the food you eat, illness, sleep, even the seasons — influence your emotional state. But at the heart of it is how you regard yourself. If you have a healthy level of self-esteem, you not only cope with life’s challenges better than people with low self-esteem, but you’re probably more content, confident, and successful. You’re probably also healthier. Studies show that positive self-esteem actually helps inoculate (為……做預(yù)防) people against depression and anxiety, conditions that may present increased risk of everything from colds to heart diseases.
Most people’s good sense of worth is rooted in their childhood — in the early approval(認可) of their parents, teachers, and friends. But as we get older, most of us judge ourselves by our sense of how effectively we’re managing in the world, especially in the areas of love and work. Our ability to love and to be loved can give us a sense of purpose and deep fulfillment. We can also find satisfaction and pride in work-related accomplishments and the people we meet and work with can reinforce our sense of self and our role in life. Once midlife comes along, however, our self-esteem can take a turn in response to changes in our lives. Marital(婚姻的) relationship may change, children may leave home , and we may begin to scale back our work as we approach retirement. Of course, the view in the mirror may not be what it used to be, either.
If you find your self-esteem eroding a bit, try to build it up again. As the saying goes, it’s better to try something and fail than to be successful at not trying anything . Focus on goals that are linked to activities you’re really interested in, so you’ll enjoy a sense of purpose and gain pleasure from the pursuit(追求) whether or not you achieve your goal in full.
1. According to the passage , all of the following factors may affect our emotion, EXCEPT ______.
A. our self-esteem
B. our physical conditions
C. our dreams
D. our surroundings
2. If a child is often scolded, when he grows up he may ______, according to the passage.
A. become a successful person
B. have enough confidence
C. get some diseases easily
D. have a low sense of worth
3. According to the second paragraph , we can know that ______.
A. our childhood always has a bad effect on our self-esteem
B. our self-esteem will not change throughout our life
C. successful experiences may enhance one’s self-worth
D. self-confidence is the most valuable treasure in one’s life
4. The author wrote the article to ______
A. criticize some scientists’ new ideas
B. suggest developing healthy self-esteem
C. advise struggling for great ideas.
D. recommend ways to avoid diseases
科目:高中英語 來源:2011年普通高等學(xué)校招生全國統(tǒng)一考試英語試題新課標(biāo)卷 題型:016
Planing so far ahead _________ no sense-so many thing will have changed by next year.
made
is making
makes
has made
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Inside the pleasingly fragrant cafe, So All May Eat(SAME) in downtown Denver ,the spirit ofgenerosityis instantly noticeable :donation box stands in place of a cash register. Customers here pay only what they can afford, no questions asked.A risky business plan, perhaps, but SAME Café has done one unchangeable thing in the Mile High City for six years: Open only at midday, the restaurant allows poor local customers who cannot pay to work as volunteers instead. They can act as waiters and waitresses, and dishwashers, or look after the buildings and equipment for the cafe.
It’s based on trust, and it’s working all right”, says co-owner Brad Birky, who started the café in 2006. Previously volunteering at soup kitchens, the Birkys were dissatisfied with the often unhealthy meals they served there. “We wanted to offer quality food in a restaurant where everyone felt comfortable, regardless of their circumstances,” Birky says. SAME’s special lunch menu changes
daily and most food materials are natural and grown by local farmers. The café now averages 65 to 70 customers (and eight volunteers) a day. And the spirit of generosity behind the project appears to be spreading. In early 2007,one volunteer who had cleared snow for his meals during t he long
winter said goodbye to the Birkys, He said he was going to New Orleans to help with the hurricane clearing up,” says Birky.
【小題1】What can we learn about the soup kitchens the Birkys previously worked for?
A.They refused to have volunteers. |
B.They offered low quality food. |
C.They provided customers with a good environment. |
D.They closed down because of poor management. |
A.The customers who cannot pay can work as volunteers instead. |
B.More volunteers will go to new Orleans for the hurricane cleanup. |
C.Many new cafes will be opened to offer free lunches in the town. |
D.The lunch menu has remained the same since the café was started. |
A.unfavorable | B.doubtful | C.cautious | D.a(chǎn)pproving |
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A Full-Time School Called Life
You are enrolled in a full-time school called “l(fā)ife”. Each day in this school you will have the opportunity to learn lessons. You may like the lessons or hate them, but you have designed them as part of your curriculum.
Why are you here? What is your purpose? Humans have sought to discover the meaning of life for a very long time. What we and our ancestors overlooked, however, is there is no one answer. The meaning of life is different for every individual.
Each person has his or her own purpose and distinct path, unique and separate from anyone else’s. As you travel your life path, you will be presented with numerous lessons that you will need to learn in order to fulfill that purpose. The lessons you are presented with are specific to you; learning these lessons is a key to discovering and fulfilling the meaning and connection of your own life.
As you travel through your lifetime, you may encounter challenging lessons that others don’t have to face, while others spend years struggling with challenges that you don’t need to deal with. You may never know why you are blessed with a wonderful marriage, while your friends suffer through bitter arguments and painful divorces, just as you cannot be sure why you struggle financially while your peers enjoy abundance. The only thing you can count on for certain is that you specifically need to learn; whether we choose to learn them or not is entirely up to you.
The challenge here, therefore , is to align(與…保持一致)yourself with your own unique path by learning individual lessons. This is one of the most difficult challenges you will be faced with in your lifetime, as sometimes your path will be completely different from others. But, remember, don’t compare your path to the people around you and focus on the difference between their lessons and yours. You need to remember that you will only be faced with lessons that you are capable of learning and are specific to your own growth.
Our sense of fairness is the expectation of equity—the assumption that all things are equal and that justice will always prevail. Life is not, in fact, fair, and you may indeed have a more difficult lift path than others around you, deserved or not. Everyone’s circumstances are unique, and everyone needs to handle his or her own circumstances differently. If you want to move toward calm, you will be required to move out the comparing phrase of “it’s not fair”. Focusing on the unfairness of circumstances keeps you comparing yourself with others rather than appreciating your own special uniqueness. You miss out on learning your individual lessons by distracting yourself with feeling of bitterness and anger.
【小題1】.According to the passage, how can the meaning of your life be realized?
A.Having the same opinions as others. |
B.Taking the distinct path from others. |
C.Learning the lessons presented to you. |
D.Doing the different things from others. |
A.everyone has his own track to follow |
B.the same thing usually happen to the peers |
C.a(chǎn) painful divorce must lie in financial problems |
D.a(chǎn) wealthy man must have a wonderful marriage |
A.a(chǎn)re beyond your power | B.keep you from growth |
C.limit your development | D.help you with your success |
A.All things are equal and justice will always prevail. |
B.You should learn to appreciate your specific uniqueness. |
C.One has to fix his mind on unfairness of circumstances. |
D.The teachers have designed the lessons as part of your curriculum in the life school.. |
A.it is full of all lessons to learn |
B.you have plenty of time to learn lessons |
C.you meet with specific lessons every day |
D.there are so many subjects for you to choose |
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A poor man has to ______ many thing which a rich man regards as almost necessaries in life.
a. go through b. go without c. go over d. go about
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