I suppose that the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention. And especially if it’s given from the heart. When people are talking, there’s no need to do anything but receive them. Listen to what they’re saying. Care about it. Most times caring about it is even more important than understanding it. Most of us don’t value ourselves or our love enough to know this. It has taken me a long time to believe in the power of simple saying “I’m so sorry,” when someone is in pain.
One of my patients told me that when she tried to tell her story people often interrupted to tell her that they once had something just like that happening to them. Her pain became a story about them. Eventually, she stopped talking to most people. We connect through listening. When we interrupt what someone is saying to let them know that we understand, we move the focus of attention to ourselves. When we listen, they know we care.
I have even learned to respond to someone crying by just listening. In the old days I used to reach for the handkerchiefs, until I realized that passing a person a handkerchief may be just another way to shut him down, to take them out of their experience of sadness. Now I just listen. When they have cried all they need to cry, they find me there with them.
This simple thing has not been that easy to learn. It certainly went against everything I had been taught since I was very young. I thought people listened only because they were too shy to speak or did not know the answer. But now I know that a loving silence often has far more power to heal than the kindest words.
1.What does the author value most in the communication with each other?
A.Deep understanding B.Saying “I’m Sorry”.
C.Attention from heart. D.Doing nothing.
2.The woman patient stopped telling her story to most people because ______.
A.She didn’t get enough respect from others
B.she was discouraged by being often interrupted
C.people often told her their own opinions
D.people couldn’t understand her sad situation
3. If you hand a handkerchief to someone crying, you may ______.
A.hurt his feelings B.make him embarrassed
C.encourage him to continue to cry D.stop him from letting out his sorrow
4. It can be inferred from the passage that while communicating, ______.
A.listening is a perfect way to respond to others
B.people keep silent because they don’t know the answer
C.keeping silent means being too shy to speak
D.it is easy to form the habit of listening silently
1.C
2.B
3.D
4.A
【解析】
試題分析:本文主要講了全身心地聆聽(tīng)別人傾訴是幫助別人排解憂傷的最好方式。
1.細(xì)節(jié)理解題。從第一段第三、四句可知答案為C。故選C。
2. 細(xì)節(jié)理解題。從第二段前三句的內(nèi)容可知這位女病人之所以不再向別人傾訴是因?yàn)樗偸潜淮驍,故選B項(xiàng)。
3. 細(xì)節(jié)理解題。從第三段第二句中的until I realized that passing a person a handkerchief may be just another way to shut him down,to take them out of their experience of sadness可知選D。
4.推理判斷題。通讀全文可推知A項(xiàng)正確。
考點(diǎn):日常生活類短文閱讀理解
點(diǎn)評(píng):這篇文章非常簡(jiǎn)單,先看問(wèn)題,再帶著問(wèn)題仔細(xì)閱讀短文,理解了全文內(nèi)容,很容易選出正確答案。閱讀短文時(shí),常常會(huì)遇到一些生詞。這時(shí),要沉著,冷靜,細(xì)心思考。首先要把整段、整篇文章看完。通過(guò)對(duì)全篇短文的理解,就很有可能猜測(cè)出生詞的大意。另外,還可以從含有生詞句子的上下文,以及句子和段落之間的關(guān)系來(lái)判斷、理解生詞以求獲得其真正含義。猜測(cè)生詞的另一種方法是,根據(jù)構(gòu)詞法推測(cè)。遇到生詞后,可從構(gòu)詞法角度分析判斷生詞。
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