Question

You may be surprised to see “making sure children never suffer” as a mistake. The following ____ may help you understand how rescuing children from all suffering ____ weakness.

A little boy felt sorry for a butterfly struggling to emerge from its chrysalis(蛹). He decided to ____ the butterfly. So he peeled(剝開) the chrysalis open for the butterfly. The little boy was so ___ to watch the butterfly spread its ____ and fly off into the sky. Then he was horrified ____ he watched the butterfly fall to the ground and die because it did not have the muscle ___ to keep flying. In fact, the butterfly’s struggle to ____ the chrysalis helps the butterfly become stronger.

Like the little boy, ____ too often want to protect their children from struggle in the ____ of love. They don’t realize that their children need to struggle, to experience ____, to deal with disappointment, and to solve their own problems. Only in this way can children ____ their emotional strength, become ____ and develop the skills necessary for the even bigger struggles they will meet throughout their lives. Children experiencing sufferings can ____ the ups and downs of life.

However, it isn’t helpful either in this case when parents ____ blame and shame to what the child is experiencing. Mothers ____ to say, “Stop crying and acting like a spoiled boy. You can’t always get what you want.” These ____ words should be avoided.

Instead, parents can offer loving support. You can say, “Don’t lose ____. Be brave! You will succeed if you try again.” Then comes the tough part — no ____ and no lectures. Simply allow him to discover that he can ___ his disappointment and carry out what he can do to get what he wants in the future.

1.A. saying B. proverb C. story D. experiment

2.A. appears B. creates C. burns D. works

3.A. kill B. feed C. rescue D. help

4.A. excited B. moved C. puzzled D. depressed

5.A. body B. feet C. wings D. feather

6.A. since B. as C. before D. until

7.A. power B. energy C. force D. strength

8.A. come up with B. break away from C. get along with D. do away with

9.A. teachers B. relatives C. parents D. friends

10.A. name B. charge C. case D. course

11.A. hardships B. friendships C. relationships D. scholarships

12.A. require B. lose C. strengthen D. fail

13.A. warm-hearted B. strong-willed C. absent-minded D. cold-blooded

14.A. survive B. predict C. expect D. avoid

15.A. reduce B. adapt C. devote D. add

16.A. pretend B. happen C. seem D. tend

17. A. interesting B. inspiring C. discouraging D. touching

18.A. sight B. face C. heart D. weight

19.A. parking B. rescuing C. drinking D. smoking

20.A. turn over B. get over C. come over D. take over

Answer 1