When you are talking to somebody at a party, do you focus entirely on the person you are speaking with or does your attention keep jumping around the room to all the other people there? General1y, if the person is someone you really want to talk to, you will focus on him. Most other people will only get about half of your attention.
You may think that this is OK, because if you don’t really want to talk to him, then what does it matter if you don’t give him your full attention? Consider two things. First, you may just not realize the importance of that conversation. If you are at a networking meeting and you hope to meet the CEO of Company X, but you end up talking to someone who has a low-level job at a different company, then you may let your attention wander（走神）as you speak to him. But maybe you don’t realize that this person has already met the CEO and could introduce you. Do you think he will do that if he feels you don’t really care about speaking to him? This doesn’t mean you need to spend the whole time talking to him. Five or ten minutes of real attentive（專心的）conversation can be worth 30 minutes to an hour of partial attention.
Second, whether you want to speak to someone is based on the situation. You can love your wife, but if she tries to talk to you while you are watching something you like on TV, where is your attention going? Make your own decision, but if you want her to feel valued, give her your 100% attention. The nice thing is that in many cases you can give her your attention for a few minutes and then return to what you were doing. You miss very little, she feels valued, and all is good.
【小題1】The author’s opinion is made believable mainly by ________.
A using figures    B. giving examples    C. asking questions     D. description
【小題2】The second paragraph mainly tells you that ________.

A．you should be interested in everyone at a party
B．you can refuse to talk to someone you don’t like at a party
C．you should focus on whoever you are talking to
D．you should be patient with everyone at a party
【小題3】A person who has a low-level job probably ________.
A．would like to talk to you
B．is well worth focusing on
C．wants to make friends with you
D．is the one you’re looking for
【小題4】If your wife wants to talk to you when you are busy, you should ________.
A．decide what to do according to the situation
B．go on with what you are doing
C．stop doing anything immediately
D．finish what you are doing with her
【小題5】What is the main idea of this passage?
A．Always be friendly to others at a party.
B．It is important for you to be active at a party.
C．You should respect your wife at any time.
D．Improve your communication skills by focusing on others


【小題1】B
【小題2】C
【小題3】B
【小題4】A
【小題5】D

解析【小題1】根據(jù)文章2,3的表達方法可知文章是通過舉例子得方法來組織全文的。
【小題2】段落大意題。根據(jù)本段內容可知是指我們應該把注意力放在我們正在談話的人身上。
【小題3】推理題。根據(jù)第2段But maybe you don’t realize that this person has already met the CEO and could introduce you.可知B正確。
【小題4】細節(jié)題。根據(jù)第三段第1句whether you want to speak to someone is based on the situation.可知A正確。
【小題5】主旨大意題。文章是通過把注意力放在別人身上來提高了交流技能。

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