19.Your kids learn a lot from their friends-things you can't teach them,no matter how much you want to.
Probably the most important thing kids learn is how to have peer relationships.As a parent,you can't do this,because you and your child aren't equals.
For example,when you're sitting on your family room floor and your very young child asks you to pass him the blocks,you probably hand them right over.If your child is sitting with a peer and asks the same thing,though,he might not get what he wants.
To succeed,your child will need to learn strategies for getting what he wants.For example,he might simply yank (猛拉) the toy out of his friend's hand.If he does that,he may learn that it's not the best way of getting what he wants because it leads to fighting and time-outs.The successful child will learn that he needs to negotiate a trade,to wait patiently,or to find something else equally fun to play with.
Friends also provide emotional support,something that is part of the foundation of healthy adulthood.You can't be with your child on the elementary school playground or at the high school dance.Your child's friends will be the ones to stick up for her,to include her in games,and later,to tell her she looks great even if her lousy prom (糟糕的舞會(huì)) date wanders off instead of dancing with her.
Friends also help your children learn.Friends solve problems together,imitate each other,and pass on knowledge.
Some experts believe that the single biggest predictor of your child's success later in life is her ability to make friends.In fact,they claim it's even more important than IQ and grades.
This doesn't mean that the kids who are most popular in school do the best later on in life.What matters is not the number of friends a child has but rather the quality of the relationships.
This is good news for those of us who hate to think that popularity really is the Holy Grail of childhood and adolescence.While it's true that popularity has many advantages,and that many popular kids really are nice people-and not just the best dressed or best looking-it's better to have a few good friends than to have the admiration of the masses.
5.By giving the example in Paragraph 3,the author wants to show thatA.
A.kids can learn how to deal with the relationships when they stay with their peers
B.parents should spend more spare time playing with their kids
C.kids should learn how to be polite when they ask their parents for help
D.parents can teach their kids how to be good members in the modern society in their daily life
6.What does the underlined phrase"stick up for"in the fifth paragraph mean?C
A.envy
B.oppose
C.support
D.ignore
7.In the author's opinion,B is more important than being popular for kids.
A.getting high grades
B.having some real friends
C.developing a good habit
D.knowing how to dress themselves up
8.Which of the following can be the best title for the passage?C
A.How to Bridge the Generation Gap
B.What It Takes to Be a Good Friend
C.Why Friends Are Important
D.How to Be Popular in School.
分析 本文屬于議論文閱讀,開(kāi)頭提出文章的論點(diǎn):孩子們可以從朋友那里學(xué)號(hào)你不能教給他們的一些東西.并分別從幾個(gè)小論點(diǎn)論證了孩子的同齡朋友對(duì)他們的影響和作用,最后提出要擁有幾個(gè)要好并懂你的朋友.
解答 5.A 推理判斷題,根據(jù)If your child is sitting with a peer and asks the same thing,though,he might not get what he wants.可知孩子需要學(xué)會(huì)如何處理與同齡孩子之間的關(guān)系,故選A.
6.C 詞義猜測(cè)題,根據(jù)Your child's friends will be the ones to stick up for her,to include her in games,and later,to tell her she looks great even if her lousy prom (糟糕的舞會(huì)) date wanders off instead of dancing with her.可知及時(shí)他的舞會(huì)很糟糕,但是他看起來(lái)依然很棒,因此劃線部分應(yīng)該是有關(guān)"支持"的,故選C.
7.B 推理判斷題,根據(jù)While it's true that popularity has many advantages,and that many popular kids really are nice people-and not just the best dressed or best looking-it's better to have a few good friends than to have the admiration of the masses.擁有幾個(gè)要好且懂你的朋友比擁有很多人的羨慕更好些,因此可知作者對(duì)于孩子而言,擁有真正的朋友比受歡迎重要,故選B.
8.C 主旨大意題,通讀全文可發(fā)現(xiàn)本文主要講述了為什么朋友對(duì)孩子來(lái)說(shuō)是重要的,故選C.
點(diǎn)評(píng) 做閱讀理解時(shí)要快速的瀏覽全文,把握文章主旨大意,帶著問(wèn)題回到原文,尋找細(xì)節(jié)或概括相應(yīng)的答案,最后要理清作者寫作思路.