After a very busy afternoon,as I walked into my house,I heard the phone ringing. It was my friend Lydia,upset over an argument with her husband. My usual approach is to offer advice,but this time,exhausted from chores,I simply sat down in a chair and listened to my friend’s frustration  and sadness. Without the disturbance of judgment or the desire to comfort her,I stayed totally quiet while she talked. Eventually Lydia’s depression eased and we said our goodbyes. The next day she phoned to thank me. “I’m so grateful for the way you helped me through this,”she said.
At first I was surprised. After all,I had done nothing except be there for her. But after I had my own venting (發(fā)泄的)  experience with another friend later that evening,I realized that my focused silence had some value. In fact,most relationship experts agree that talk is cheap;it’s listening that’s rare and valuable It allows you not only to hear what the other person is saying,but also to have a clear understanding of her thoughts and feelings. And for the speaker,that level of understanding translates into concern and respect.
Unfortunately,listening isn’t as easy as it sounds. Thanks  to  schedules  filled  with  family and work,multitasking has become a barrier (障礙) to listening. My tiredness may have been the only thing stopping me from folding  laundry or checking my e­mail while Lydia talked that afternoon.
Another barrier to listening is our listening system:Most of us take in only about half of what’s being said during a conversation,according to the International Listening Association. Research shows that we speak at 125 to 150 words per minute,yet think at 500 words a minute. Therefore,because we think much more quickly than we  speak,it is easy for us to lose our concentration when  listening to speakers.
While it can be hard to focus at times,it’s a skill worth developing. With a little practice  (employing some techniques),you can become a better listener.
小題1:Why didn’t the author give any advice to Lydia that afternoon?
A.Because she thought her keeping silence was better for Lydia.
B.Because she didn’t know how to comfort Lydia.
C.Because she was too tired to talk to Lydia.
D.Because she couldn’t cut in while Lydia was talking.
小題2:In Paragraph 2,the author mainly talks about________.
A.the importance of listening
B.the importance of venting anger
C.her own listening experience
D.her own venting experience
小題3:The author uses the result of the research in Paragraph 4 to mainly show that________.
A.we think much more quickly than we speak
B.we can only understand about half of what we hear
C.there is not much thinking time available while we are listening
D.we lose our concentration easily while we are listening
小題4:What will be discussed following the passage?
A.Why listening is valuable.
B.What we should do while listening.
C.How to become a good listener.
D.How to stop drifting off while listening.
小題5:The first paragraph serves as a(n)________.
A.explanation B.introduction
C.commentD.background

小題1:C
小題2:A
小題3:D
小題4:C
小題5:B
傾聽也是一門藝術(shù)。
小題1:C細(xì)節(jié)理解題。由第一段的exhausted from chores可知,作者由于太勞累,只能聽朋友講話,沒有提建議,也沒有安慰她。
小題2:A段落大意題。第二段作者通過自己發(fā)泄的經(jīng)歷體會(huì)到了傾聽的重要性,人際關(guān)系專家的觀點(diǎn)也證實(shí)了這一點(diǎn),故選A項(xiàng).
小題3:D推理判斷題。結(jié)合本段的主題可知,作者引用這一研究結(jié)果是想說明:容易走神是傾聽的一大障礙
小題4:C文章結(jié)構(gòu)題。文章最后說到采用一些技巧稍加練習(xí),你就可以成為一個(gè)更好的傾聽者。由此可知,接下來作者會(huì)告訴大家一些傾聽的技巧。
小題5:B寫作手法題。本文講述了傾聽的作用及傾聽的障礙,文章首段由朋友打電話向作者傾訴這一事件引出敘述的主題,B正確。
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